Trust in Human Scale

Autistic ways of being are part of a culture that deserves the same respect as any other culture. Over the course of months and years, de-powered dialogue and omni-directional learning amongst Autistic, Artistic and otherwise Neurodivergent people results in trustworthy relationships, and in a diverse network of evolving intersectional ecologies of care.

This is a really important message for medical professionals who have been trained to look at humans as individuals, at best within a context of an atomised family, but not as precious human beings within an ecological context.

The numbers and experience reports from Dr. B. Educated participatory research highlight deficits in the education of medical doctors related to understanding the human condition and human ecologies.

Our education team is keen to work with medical colleges and medical schools to expand the sphere of discourse to ecological diseases and disorders, and to shift away from pathologising individual ways of being. All assistance in this space is appreciated. We are learning every day

The interactive Dr. B. Educated professional education courses are an avenue for disseminating essential knowledge and for nurturing greater levels of shared understanding, but we are also interested in public education beyond the medical professions.

Last year, thanks to Hans Georg Moeller’s work, I discovered Daoist philosophy, which has opened a whole treasure trove of wisdom. Daoist philosophy feels familiar, it reflects the culture that is emerging within Autistic communities, the timeless wisdom people in healthy ecological contexts have known for thousands of years.

The 57th chapter of the Dao De Ching is a good starting point:

A state may be ruled by (measures of) correction; 
weapons of war may be used with crafty dexterity; 
(but) the kingdom is made one’s own (only) by freedom from action and purpose.


How do I know that it is so? By these facts:
In the kingdom the multiplication of prohibitive enactments increases the poverty of the people; 
the more implements to add to their profit that the people have, 
the greater disorder is there in the state and clan; 
the more acts of crafty dexterity that men possess, 

the more do strange contrivances appear; 
the more display there is of legislation, 

the more thieves and robbers there are. 

Therefore a sage has said, 
‘I will do nothing (of purpose), 

and the people will be transformed of themselves; 
I will be fond of keeping still, 

and the people will of themselves become correct. 
I will take no trouble about it, 

and the people will of themselves become rich; 
I will manifest no ambition, 

and the people will of themselves attain to the primitive simplicity.’

The psychology of human scale ecologies beyond the human

The online blog format is a great way for catalysing de-powered dialogue and omni-directional learning, one or two steps away from corporate controlled social media environments. However, the blog format, just like all other short-form writing, has limitations.

The wonderful de-powered dialogues generated only partially take place within the blog format, they also take place via various other channels. This is not a limitation that needs to be fixed, it is simply an acknowledgement that there is a much bigger sphere of discourse and relational context that can’t be compressed into linear language or even into any other short-form multi-media artefact.

Over the course of months and years, de-powered dialogue and omni-directional learning amongst Autistic, Artistic and otherwise Neurodivergent people results in trustworthy relationships, and in a diverse network of evolving intersectional ecologies of care.

Furthermore, conceptually, each blog post is like one thread woven into a fabric of hundreds and thousands of other threads via hyperlinks. On the one hand this allows for much needed additional context, but on the other hand, similar to the limitations of academic style articles, it makes the content less self-contained and less accessible to those who are not already familiar with the wider context.

Based on everything that I have learned, experienced, and written about over the last three years, including the way in which my own small ecology of care beyond the human has evolved in ways that I could never have imagined, it is time to embark on another book curation and distillation project. All the ingredients are already there, within the fabric of AutCollab articles, and within corresponding mental models within my ecology of care.

The overarching theme could be described as ‘The psychology of human scale ecologies beyond the human’, but I also want to highlight the key element that holds together all the threads, which has been systematically eroded in Westernised societies: the notion of trust, including the role of trustworthy, sacred relationships within the context of human scale ecologies of care beyond the human, resulting in the working title ‘Trust in Human Scale : Ecologies of care beyond the human’.

The book will build on the foundations laid in the book on the beauty of collaboration at human scale that I collated in 2021. Based on what I am currently learning, and as far as I can see, ‘Ecologies of care beyond the human’ will emerge as the enduring overarching theme for Autistic / A♾tistic / Artistic Collaboration going forward.

In a toxic hypercompetitive world many Autistic people have suffered some form of abuse throughout their childhood, often from their caregivers.

Broken trust is at the core of Autistic trauma. We are not equipped for life in industrialised societies that are all about deceptive perception management, where even “education” of small children in primary school is focused on “persuasive” writing and “winning” debates –
appealing to the majority;
demonising the “inappropriate” ways of being of all “insignificant” minorities.

What is completely lacking in the mordern hypernormative social world around us is a culture that appreciates the open dialogues necessary to nurture and deepen shared understanding, and to discover and openly acknowledge the boundaries of shared understanding at each stage of the journey.

Most of what Autistic people struggle with can be traced to trauma. The following observation is from our database of Autistic experiences in healthcare settings:

Not being believed or given the benefit of the doubt can be worse than the experience itself

The way this is obscured and muddled up in the Devil’s Sadistic Manual and then packaged in pathologising labels that make people look for faults in themselves and others is only making things worse.

As I was looking through materials on nurturing mutual trust and the erosion of trustworthy relationships in Westernised societies, I came across a mashup presentation on the topic of trust in the economic sphere that I had put together back in 2017 , the year of the first AutCollab blog post:

Since the time of this presentation, I am afraid the notion of trust has further eroded across all spheres of life in the global mono-cult, but at the same time, on the margins of society, we have experienced a heartwarming increase in intersectional solidarity and we are seeing emerging ecologies of mutual trust and care.

Undoubtedly the book on trust will benefit from further Autistic dialogues in the coming months, and from the database of Dr. B. Educated participatory research, i.e. from your lived experiences.

With a bit of luck the book ‘Trust in Human Scale’ will be published by the end of 2024. In the meantime, all your input on this topic is much appreciated, especially pointers to related earlier work, and of course your experiences from all spheres of life.

If you would like to assist as a reviewer of a draft of the book later this year, please let me know!

The beauty of collaboration at human scale

So far the book on collaboration at human scale has been available in electronic formats. As part of the efforts of the AutCollab Education Team to connect with schools and to educate teachers, we realised that it might be good idea to produce a printed edition, and then to approach libraries and school libraries to buy copies.

The thought of publishing via Amazon was not appealing at all. With a bit of digging around, and remembering that we live in a world of on-demand book printing services, we came across lulu.com, which advertises itself as “a Certified B Corporation, Lulu is committed to balancing purpose and profit. We prioritize sustainability and strive for the highest standards of social and environmental performance.” and operates printers across the Anglosphere. We figured this is probably a better option.

You can now purchase a truly beautiful A4 size textbook edition of The Beauty of Collaboration at Human Scale at lulu.com.

Or even better, save trees by downloading an electronic version and ask your local library and your local school libraries to purchase copies of the book, perhaps together with other books by Autistic Rights and Neurodiversity Activists!

The quality of the binding, the paper, and the print is great, exceeding my expectations, including the quality of the large easily legible diagrams. If you prefer paper books, if you enjoy annotating books, and especially if your eyesight is poor and you prefer a larger font size, I can recommend the lulu.com print edition.

Together with an Autistic friend in Colombia I am collaborating on a hand-crafted translation into Spanish. As part of the process I am hoping to learn some Spanish. More omni-directional learning.

The Beauty of Collaboration at Human Scale‘ explains how losing track of our evolutionary heritage, and ignoring the limitations of human scale, has allowed a small minority of power addicted primates to infect human societies with a life denying and life destroying cultural disease. Today evolutionary forces far beyond human control are pushing us back towards the rediscovery of the limits of human scale.

The evolution of ecosystems is best understood in terms of collaborative niche construction over periods of many generations. In this context evolutionary “success” of a species is neither the result of fierce head to head competition within species, nor the result of ubiquitous competition with other species. In healthy ecosystems, collaboration within and between species is ubiquitous, it is an energy saving strategy. For any species, competition within and between species is energy intensive. Any species that relies on competition as the default strategy, especially within a species, rapidly goes extinct.

The evolutionary context of trust

Humans have only survived in the face of much stronger top predators in various ecosystems by being able to collaborate, and use symbolic language to better understand each other’s intentions and to coordinate our actions.

The biological evolutionary heritage of our capacity for culture and symbolic thought and language is directly linked to – and dependent – on our ability to fully trust each other in life and death situations.

Yes, eventually we displaced the top predators in all ecosystems, and we became the most prolific primate on the planet. But this would have been completely impossible if symbolic language had evolved primarily to allow us to engage in fierce competition with each other, and to deceive each other. Generalising to an ecological context beyond the human, Janine Benyus summarises the evolutionary process of life as follows:

Life creates conditions conducive to life.

When competition and deceptive communication takes over within the ecosystems that we refer to as multi-celled life forms, we refer to it as a cancerous disease. And yet, we currently live in a global mono-cult that pathologises those who have an unusually strong innate predisposition to extend trust and be trustworthy, and a strong innate aversion to deception:

Children with autism, when studied under experimental conditions, have been shown to have difficulties both in the production of deception and in understanding when someone else is deceiving them. … a deficit can be revealed even in the highest functioning individuals with an autism-spectrum condition in whom general comprehension problems can be ruled out.

– From ‘Theory of mind and autism: A review’, from the International Review of Research in Mental Retardation, Volume 23, 2000, Pages 169-184

That something like this passes as “science” should make every human stop in their tracks. If, as a species, we have one responsibility within the planetary ecosystem, it is to recognise that it is time to set the record straight on the toxicity of a culture that normalises and even celebrates competitive and deceptive behaviour.

As part of the oneness of life, we can only resolve the cognitive dissonance that is killing us all by fully appreciating human biodiversity, by realigning our many cultures with the local foundations of life, and by committing to minimise the human and non-human suffering that lies ahead for many generations to come.

While the materialist is mainly interested in goods, the Buddhist is mainly interested in liberation. But Buddhism is “The Middle Way” and therefore in no way antagonistic to physical well-being. It is not wealth that stands in the way of liberation but the attachment to wealth; not the enjoyment of pleasurable things but the craving for them. The keynote of Buddhist economics (1966), therefore, is simplicity and non-violence. From an economist’s point of view, the marvel of the Buddhist way of life is the utter rationality of its pattern—amazingly small means leading to extraordinarily satisfactory results.

Whether A♾tistic dreamers are able to establish alternative ecologies of care beyond the human is no longer up for debate. We have nothing to lose. We deeply appreciate the wonder of life, and we can clearly see the global mono-cult for what it is.

We are A♾tistic. We are fully human. We are alive.

Somehow the wonder of life prevails

A♾tistic people support each other, love each other, and care for each other in ways that go far beyond the culturally impaired hypernormative imagination

Onwards!

How unsafe do Autistic and intersectionally marginalised people feel in your presence?

The biggest fears of Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled people relate to unmet healthcare needs, their work environment, their parents, and disrespect by healthcare professionals. Data from our participatory research shows the large overlap and the intersectionality between Autistic communities, and the LGBTQIA+ and Disabled communities.

The vast majority of healthcare professionals are ignorant not only about Autistic culture and Autistic ways of being, they are also ignorant about the prevelance of complex trauma amongst intersectionally marginalised people.

This article presents Dr. B. Educated participatory research data in a visual format, and provides context in terms of the demographics covered.

If you are mainly interested in a summary of the results and in recommendations for clinical practice, you can navigate straight to the conclusions, and to the steps you can take towards making healthcare environments more accessible and safer for intersectionally marginalised people.

How safe do intersectionally marginalised people feel?

Our survey data on the relative safety people experience in different spheres of life is from an ongoing survey of marginalised populations, currently limited to 129 responses, which an emphasis on lived experiences in healthcare settings.

If you are part of a minority group, you can greatly assist our ongoing efforts by contributing your lived experiences to our anonymous survey Feeling Safe.

Demographics

Geography

Intersectionality of Autistic communities

(Un)safety in different social spheres

How feeling unsafe is experienced

Lived experiences from clinical environments

This section only features a small number of examples from our growing database of participatory research.

What are the most important things you wish healthcare professionals to know, respect, and do, when engaging with you?

I wish they wouldn’t make assumptions about autism. I have sensory challenges. Informed consent is a must. Do not order, push, or try to change my mind about treatment. I will decide what I can do and what I want. I believe in self advocacy and working as a team with healthcare providers. I don’t do well with anyone who wants to tell me what to do. I haven’t met many who understand the needs of autistic people.

Clarity and not get upset if I ask them to repeat the questions, and wait if I don’t respond fast enough.

That autists can have higher sensitivities to life stressors, which affects every part of health. 

That if I am bringing a problem to them, I have already spent a lot of time learning and thinking about it and they should be open to asking me questions instead of dismissing my concerns based on my history of depression/anxiety.

Don’t lie to me, or lie by ommission. Do not withold information for fear I will be upset by it. Lay everything out as it is. I cannot make informed decisions if I am not properly informed. In the sam vein; I will take everything you say at face value. If you mince words, if you exagerate or hold back, I will not realise. I will not read between the lines and put together your puzzle. Just because I seem okay, it does not mean I am. I have had decades of practice at acting “normal”. That mask doesn’t drop just because I’m in pain, physical or mental.

I don’t always feel pain or discomfort the same way as others, and I can take longer to process new information and formulate questions about it. Encouraging follow up emails would help. 

Listen and believe my experience.

Our bodies are all holding so much trauma. 

My experience of pain and responses to treatment in psychotherapy and medical settings (i.e., anesthesia does not work as expected in my body); and all mental health and medical treatment must be managed differently to prevent iatrogenic harm.

They need to understand when you upset someone with communication difficulties, it amplifies those difficulties. That it steals our words. I need them to listen to me when I talk and to believe what I have to say. To consider it at face value as I describe it, not twist and warp it with intent into something it is not. It is important to allow me to start where I need to in the process of medical history, starting in the middle can be hard. The forms should be more detailed; tell me if you want 2 years or all of my medical history. 

Even though I am a grey haired middle aged autistic bisexual married woman, I am not stupid. I am often treated as if I am somehow low in intelligence. My IQ is around 146 +- 10. People expect me not to be able to use my cell phone, not to understand simple medical explanations etc. The lightning in the doctor´s often is very difficult, and all stimuli is overwhelming. 

I hear you when you’re talking about me even when I don’t appear to be listening or capable of hearing. I’m afraid you will kill me. My personal experiences and the experiences of my family and the experiences of others taught me this fear. When I may be in need of medical attention I consider whether I am ready to die in your care. If you are engaging with me it will be because I think the risk of dying is higher without at least attempting to get medical help. If that happens: Please do not disparage me, or make fun of me, or laugh at me, or punish me with your power because you are angry at me. Please know that I am not trying to be difficult, ever. Please help me by asking me questions and listening to my answers. Please ask me if I have questions and reply respectfully to those questions if I do. Please let me offer solutions to your gown and other things that cause me distress while I am being treated. Please don’t lie to me. Please know that I am terrified, even when I do not appear to be. I may not be able to speak or hear well. I may seem to be resistant to things that don’t make any sense to you. I would need you to explain why you are doing what you are doing. I am very courageous and can put up with many painful and invasive things if necessary but I need to understand. I am slow processing but I can and do understand a lot. I’m capable. Please give me time, information, and choices. That said, please listen to what I am telling you about my body and my symptoms. I am listening to you. I am not lying. I understand that I can be wrong. I am not thinking I know better than you. If I did I wouldn’t be there. Please do not force me or manipulate me physically or otherwise to do things you want me to do.

Have you had any traumatising experiences in healthcare settings that no one should ever experience? Please outline.

Yes. Pushing of invasive screenings. Disrespect of my bodily autonomy and informed consent. Rough exam. I avoid going to the doctor at this point as no one is autism and trauma informed.

I was in the ER after my hip had dislocated for the 3rd time. The doctor never visited me prior and after my resetting of my hip. He also left the hospital to go to his private practice without giving an order to the discharging nurse to remove my catheter. I personally had to call his office. When I asked to personally speak to the doctor he refused and I was embarrassed to tell the receptionist that I needed to have him call the hospital and give the order to remove the catheter. I was so upset my words were mumbled, I shut down from anger, and cried all the way home. It took hours to regain my composure. 

Yes. I have had a male doctor pretty much kick me out of the patient room. I had a female doctor misdiagnose me with a rare brain disorder and put me on the wrong medication; when I told her it wasn’t working she upped my dose. She refused to hear any of my other symptoms or complications. Not many doctors understand the consequences of sensitivity on the body. My therapist didn’t even recognize my autism until I got diagnoses through my psychiatrist. 

Yes, too many and I’m going right now with a breast cancer diagnosis with 0 accommodation .

Yes, multiple. I respond differently to anesthesia and have had horrifically painful surgeries while fully conscious and feeling everything. I was repeatedly misdiagnosed with major depression, generalized anxiety, and borderline personality disorder and mistreated as a result in subsequent treatment settings. I am a mental health professional. 

I am partially from a Muslim background- during my second appointment with a talk therapist, I mentioned a poor relationship with my father, and she immediately assumed that his poor attitude towards me was due to his religious background. She kept insisting on this even after I explained that the issues were clashes of personality between two people living in the same house (he is impatient and quite extroverted, I do tasks slowly and am almost asocial).

Yes. People not respecting my pronouns, my gender. Doctors not wanting to treat me for being trans. Having my illnesses minimized due to my mental health diagnosis.

My former psychologist used to invalidate me because I began to unmask my autistic traits. I left because she did not want to understand anything about my experience in the world.

Safety of work environments

Our survey data on the safety of work environments is from an ongoing survey across all sectors of the economy, across a population of more than 320 workers, of which more than 10% identify as Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and/or Disabled.

You can greatly assist our ongoing efforts by contributing your lived experiences to our anonymous survey Psychological Safety. We would love to expand our dataset to be able to compare differences between various sectors in the economy and between the lived experiences in different geographies.

Demographics

Baseline across all professions

The demographics of marginalising categories across all professions within our database:

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled professionals

The intersectionality of marginalising categories amongst Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled people across all professions within our database:

How safe do you feel at work?

Baseline across all professions

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled professionals

Baseline across all professions

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled professionals

Baseline across all professions

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled professionals

Baseline across all professions

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled professionals

Safety of clinical work environments

Demographics

Healthcare professionals

The demographics of marginalising categories amongst the healthcare professionals within our database:

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled healthcare professionals

The intersectionality of marginalising categories amongst Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled healthcare professionals within our database:

How safe do you feel at work?

Healthcare professionals

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled healthcare professionals

Healthcare professionals

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled healthcare professionals

Healthcare professionals

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled healthcare professionals

Healthcare professionals

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled healthcare professionals

Conclusions

Safety of intersectionally marginalised people

Across the board, many – if not most Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled people do not feel safe within their families, amongst their friends, and at work.

As to be expected, compared to other spheres of life, Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled people tend to feel safest with their life partner.

More than 40% of Autistic and otherwise Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled people do not have a life partner. Around half of these 40% likely don’t have any accessible social sphere in which they can feel genuinely safe.

Prevelance of trauma

In our survey data, over 85% of Autistic and otherwise Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled people often or always feel misunderstood, and the same number often or always feel overwhelmed. Over 60% of Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled people often or always have at least five negative feelings, in addition to the above, feeling unsafe, insecure, and disrespected. Furthermore over 40% often or always feel bullied/manipulated and abandoned, and 32% indicate that they often or always feel betrayed.

93% of the Neurodivergent respondents to our Feeling Safe survey identify as Autistic. This means that the demographics of our data show the large overlap and the intersectionality between Autistic communities, and the LGBTQIA+ and Disabled communities.

In our survey data 56% of Autistic people also identify as Disabled, and 53% number identify as LGBTQIA+. This means the majority of Autistic people are intersectionally marginalised. We are are part of an easily overlooked minority within the Disabled and LGBTQIA+ communities.

Given this context, it is no surprise that complex trauma is very common amongst Autistic people, and that this is reflected in our mental health statistics.

Our survey data indicated that 82% of Autistic and otherwise Neurodivergent people often or always experience anxiety. 63% often or always suffer from burnout, 57% often or always suffer from stress related health problems, 52% often or always suffer from insomnia, and 45% often or always feel depressed.

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled patients

The vast majority of healthcare professionals are ignorant not only about Autistic culture and Autistic ways of being, they are also ignorant about the prevelance of complex trauma amongst intersectionally marginalised people, and this ignorance is reflected in the lived experience reports we are receiving from Autistic and otherwise Neurodivergent patients.

The biggest fears of Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled people relate to:

  1. unmet healthcare needs (65%)
  2. their work environment (64%)
  3. their parents (54%)
  4. disrespect by healthcare professionals (46%)

In comparison, the numbers of those whose greatest fears relate to other social spheres are much lower:

  1. friends (22%)
  2. siblings (22%)
  3. life partner (18%)
  4. children (7%)

It is very clear that healthcare settings are consistently experienced as highly unsafe by Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled patients.

This is also reflected in the experiences submitted in the qualitative parts of our surveys and in the in-depth lived experience reports we receive. Consistently, over 75% of the responses we receive to our ongoing Feeling Safe survey include examples of traumatising experiences in healthcare settings that no one should ever experience.

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled professionals

Many Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled professionals often or always feel unsafe amongst peers, superiors, and suppliers, in some aspects of work more than 50% or more of Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled professionals often or always feel unsafe.

Across the board, the level of psychological safety amongst Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled workers is much lower than the level of psychological safety amongst workers in general.

Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled healthcare professionals

50% or more of Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled healthcare professionals often or always feel unsafe amongst peers, superiors, and patients, noticeably more so than their non/less-marginalised colleagues.

Even though according to our survey data, the psychological safety experienced across all healthcare healthcare professionals is slightly lower than in many other industries, this lack of safety is consistently highest amongst Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled healthcare professionals. In particular more Neurodivergent, LGBTQIA+ and Disabled healthcare professionals indicate that they are:

  1. always afraid to be their authentic self at work
  2. always afraid to make mistakes at work
  3. always afraid to disagree with their peers and their patients

Next steps

Contribute to our Dr. B. Educated participatory research

Participate in our anonymous surveys, submit lived experience reports, and encourage your colleagues, families, and friends to participate.

Feeling Safe – This 5 minute anonymous survey (fourteen questions) is conducted by the Autistic Collaboration Trust and is sponsored by S23M.

Feeling Safe Growing Up – This 5 minute anonymous survey (fifteen questions) is conducted by the Autistic Collaboration Trust and is sponsored by S23M.

Regularly attend our Dr. B. Educated courses

If you are a medical doctor or allied healthcare professional, join our Dr. B. Educated courses as part of your Continuous Professional Development (CPD) efforts.

Our courses are taught by neurodivergent educators, allow you to learn from our unique database of lived experiences, and provide interactive opportunities to learn from and with members of the intersectional AutCollab community.

Regularly attend our education courses for educators

If you are a teacher or education professional, join our education courses for educators as part of your Continuous Professional Development (CPD) efforts.

Our courses are taught by neurodivergent educators and provide interactive opportunities to learn from and with members of the intersectional AutCollab community.

Onwards! – The AutCollab Education Team.

Understanding power and de-powering

The normalisation of social power gradients and powered-up relationships is the terminal disease that plagues all empires. Since we live in the context of the convulsions of dying empires, it is important to understand the cultural dynamics that are unfolding.

Joseph Tainter’s analysis of complex societies shows that collapse of hierarchical complexity “is not a fall to some primordial chaos, but a return to the normal human condition of lower complexity”.

This article offers a curated list of valuable public learning resources for our current times, to help us acknowledge our cognitive and emotional limits, and slow down to the relational speed life at human scale. There is a logical sequence to the referenced educational videos. Together they form a crash course for understanding the toxic effects of all forms of social power.

The timeless art of de-powering and maintaining trustworthy de-powered relationships was well understood by Daoist scholars. I consider it to be the forgotten signature trait of our species, predating the emergence of powered-up empires by several hundred thousand years.

Onwards!

The sickness of powered-up relationships & societies

Cult of the self

In WEIRD performance oriented cultures powered-up relationships are normalised at all levels of scale, resulting in a toxic culture of fear and a collective learning disability.

Maintaining the illusion of control

As long as an organisation describes itself with a pyramidal organisational chart it projects a not-very-subtle-at-all signal that management by fear is to be tolerated by and is expected of anyone who joins. Ultimately all forms of “management by fear” amount to bullying, and Autistic people are highly sensitive to such attempts of manipulation.

Dehumanisation

“Conversion therapies” such as Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA) are pseudoscientific practices of trying to change an individual’s behaviour to conform to the social expectations of a particular culture using psychological and physical interventions.

Recognising the sick logic of power

The logic of power in religion

You can listen to the following educational video on toxic dogmatic religions and replace religion with capitalism to begin to understand how deeply embedded and normalised the coercive power of capital is in Westernised cultures.

The logic of power at work

Here is the above story transposed onto the capitalist work ethic, which systematically sanctifies capital. What is the sacred work of God in dogmatic religions is replaced by the sacred work of Capital.

The resultant logic of fear

The commonality across all cults and powered-up empires is ubiquitous fear. To create conditions of ubiquitous fear, dogmatic religions and capitalism install the toxic belief that humans are fundamentally bad and lazy by nature, and therefore need to be controlled and disciplined.

Advice for the inmates of dying empires

De-legitimising the language of power

The common theme across the global mono-cult of capitalism is the willingness to exploit other people for personal gain, including the audacity to take personal credit for the results of others or for the results achieved as part of a team. And as importantly, neither economics nor the Internet draw directly on an evidence based understanding of physics, biology, and human behaviour.

Both the Internet and economic theories are best understood as prescriptive rather than as observational tools, as language systems that are based on specific European and North American cultural conventions that are assumed as ‘sensible’ (common sense) or ‘obvious’ (self-evident).

With these language systems in place we can measure data flows and economic performance, but only in terms of the scope and the preconceived categories afforded by the formal protocols and languages.

The tools of civilisation, including money, have undermined our appreciation of interdependence, and within the Western world have culminated in a toxic cult of competitive individualism, which amongst the non-autistic population ironically leads to extreme levels of groupthink.

It is learning how to take our differences and make them strengths. For the master’s tools will never dismantle the master’s house. They may allow us temporarily to beat him at his own game, but they will never enable us to bring about genuine change.
– Audrey Lorde, Black, lesbian, feminist, socialist, mother, warrior, poet

Do you really want change?

Fundamental change in the cultural environment of a hypernormative cult-like society requires changes in how we relate to other people and non-human living beings. By definition it is not something that anyone can do in isolation, it requires collective action. How do we bootstrap a safe environment of trustworthy de-powered relationships when we have grown up and are surrounded by powered-up relationships at home, at work, and in wider society? And how do we avoid re-creating yet another system of powered-up relationships?

Becoming conscious of human cognitive and emotional limits, and recognising that these limits are just as real, immutable, and relevant for our survival as the laws of physics may allow us to avoid the fate of earlier civilisations, and to embark on a path of radical energy descent.

We can tap into many years of experience with egalitarian worker co-ops, with practicing de-powered dialogue, and with consistently using an advice process before arriving at decisions that may affect others in major ways, as well as many centuries of lived experience within indigenous societies.

Best practices for social collapse

An ideological bias towards market based “solutions” obscures institutional problems. 250 years of industrialised civilisation have impaired our ability to understand and navigate the world in terms of trusted relationships. The fiction of homo economicus manifests itself in the belief in the need for external incentives and coercion.

The climate of fear in an atomised society has shrunk the sphere of discourse to the point where the existence of most institutions is no longer questioned. All potential institutional problems are assumed to be addressable by adding further complexity to established institutions or by complementing established institutions with further institutions.

Living fearlessly

The Autistic Collaboration community grows organically, at human scale, at a human pace, one trusted relationship at a time, as part of a process of collaborative niche construction, contributing to the wellbeing of Autistic and otherwise neurodivergent and intersectionally marginalised people.

The evolving web of relationships, mutual aid, and peer support initiatives is best understood in terms of emergent Ecologies of Care beyond the human, and is informed by our collective lived experience and by the results of our ongoing participatory research.

A beautiful quote from an article written by Pip Carroll (2020), in the lead up to the prolonged but ultimately very successful lock-down in Melbourne:

A caring society does not value the individual for their ability to return economic value, but simply for existing as their own imperfect self. We can’t choose to be cared for any more than we can choose to win the lottery. We can only hope to develop the quality in others by offering care ourselves. Trusting that care, once given is ordained to return to another in need.

A shift from a global monoculture to ecosystems of human scale groups reduces the spurious complexity needed to support a monoculture, and it retains and even grows adaptive cultural complexity, i.e. the diversity that emerges when the human ecological footprint is aligned with bioregional ecosystem functions. Spurious complexity wastes energy – is the result of humans working against biological evolution, whereas adaptive complexity saves energy – it is the result of humans engaging in collaborative niche construction as a part of biological ecosystems.

You can join us in Open Space via the quarterly NeurodiVerse Days of Solidarity

Below are useful tools for living fearlessly.

Appreciating autonomy and ecologies of care at human scale

Daoist philosophy

Liberation of the marginalised

Ecoversities

An Autistic Guide to Healthy Relationships

Co-creating conditions conducive to life

Self-Directed Education

Co-Creating NeurodiVentures and A♾tistic Whānau

There is an urgent need to catalyse Autistic collaboration and co-create healthy Autistic, Artistic, and otherwise neurodivergent whānau all over the world. Autists depend on assistance from others in ways that differ from the cultural norm – and that is pathologised in hypernormative societies. However, the many ways in which non-autistic people depend on others is considered “normal”. The endless chains of trauma must be broken. 

Surviving on the edges of modern society is an Art. The Arts and regular immersion in genuinely safe Open Spaces help us imagine and co-create ecologies of care in which care and mutual aid are the primary values. Healthy Artistic and Autistic life paths by necessity differ from “normality”.

It is time to fully recognise the level of trauma amongst the growing numbers of marginalised people, and especially intersectionally marginalised people.

Venn diagram of Artistic people and Autistic people, with the infinity symbol representing the union of both sets pf people

A♾tistic : Autistic, Artistic, and other ways of being that deviate from hypernormativity

The Arts are also an essential part of education. Healthy A♾tistic life paths by necessity differ from WEIRD normality. This must be fully acknowledged as part of any Diversity Equity and Inclusion (DEI) approach that claims to respect the human rights of marginalised people.

Maybe A♾tistic should be pronounced Awetistic, which is already familiar to Autists?

With the expanded definition in place, which also nicely integrates the diversity semantics of the infinity symbol of the neurodiversity movement, we can recognise the ecological significance of A♾tistic humans that co-create A♾tistic cultures and A♾tistic friendly cultures. Only when we get to the point where everyone recognises that at some level they have an A♾tistic side, only then no one is left behind. Until then, WEIRD society is crippled by internalised ableism.

Please note that I am not saying that “everyone is a little bit Autistic”! What I am saying is that deep down everyone has a creative artistic side, and that this is the aspect of humanity that is systematically repressed and oppressed in WEIRD societies, and is replaced by shallow performative forms of “creativity” – the kind of “creativity” that any decent so-called artificially intelligent system can mass produce.

We need to recognize and celebrate our many strengths and talents that may not be showcased in modern transactional Western workplaces, competitive classrooms, and hypernormative nuclear family environments. Such unsafe environments punish us for our creativity, ability to think outside-the-box, solve problems with unusual skills, unique insights, and perspectives, as well as our perseverance and ability to collaborate in innovative un-orthodox ways. In mainstream society people don’t understand how Atistic people support each other, love each other, and care for each other in ways that go far beyond the culturally impaired neuronormative imagination

There is the saying that “It takes a village to raise a child.” The A♾tistic translation of this saying is “For an A♾tistic person it takes an extended A♾tistic family to feel loved and alive.”

In the modern industrialised and post-industrialised world, most A♾tists are not born into healthy A♾tistic families. We have to co-create our families in our own space and time, where we can express our many feelings in our own unique ways. In a healthy culture A♾tistic children are assisted in co-creating their unique A♾tistic families, but in our “civilisation” this cultural knowledge has been lost and is suppressed.

A♾tistic people are not for sale

The actual effect of the myth of meritocracy, which is used to normalise and rationalise head to head competition, is a consistent bias to over-represent capabilities, and to actively avoid thinking about externalities.

This is familiar to anyone who has ever been exposed to advertising. The cult of busyness undermines attempts at creating a shared understanding at a very basic level. The collective effects at scale and over decades are disastrous

Especially Autistic people, but also many artists do not fare well in transactional, competitive, and hierarchically organised workplace environment.

W Edward Deming succinctly summarised the myth of meritocracy within competitive hierarchically organised workplaces:

“Pay for merit, pay for what you get, reward performance. Sounds great, can’t be done. Unfortunately it can not be done, on short range. After 10 years perhaps, 20 years, yes. The effect is devastating. People must have something to show, something to count. In other words, the merit system nourishes short-term performance. It annihilates long-term planning. It annihilates teamwork. People can not work together. To get promotion you’ve got to get ahead. By working with a team, you help other people. You may help yourself equally, but you don’t get ahead by being equal, you get ahead by being ahead. Produce something more, have more to show, more to count. Teamwork means work together, hear everybody’s ideas, fill in for other people’s weaknesses, acknowledge their strengths. Work together. This is impossible under the merit rating / review of performance system. People are afraid. They are in fear. They work in fear. They can not contribute to the company as they would wish to contribute. This holds at all levels. But there is something worse than all of that. When the annual ratings are given out, people are bitter. They can not understand why they are not rated high. And there is a good reason not to understand. Because I could show you with a bit of time that it is purely a lottery.” – W Edwards Deming (1984)

For Autists, beyond the toxic aspect of competition, which completely violates any sense of fairness, the sensory environment in many traditional workplaces can be pure hell. I hand over to Mica for an in-depth explanation:

Mica’s story is not exceptional. It is a good example of the ways in which Autistic people have to weave their lives in unconventional ways – the only ways that are viable and survivable for us. The unusual and unique niches that many of us end up co-creating are not the sad part. The sad part is the extent to which hypernormative society actively prevents us from carving our unique niches that meet our basic sensory, social, intellectual, and emotional needs.

For most of us, finding our niche, and reaching a point where this niche provides us with livelihood within the context of a safe and welcoming ecology of care, is a process that takes decades. Too many of us never reach the point where we get to feel a sense of belonging within a multi-dimensional ecological context that is part of the amazing big cycle of life on this planet – without being judged and dismissed.

A/Prof Gerald Roche has written an excellent article that explains what’s it like to be an Autistic worker in the neoliberal job market and how neoliberal work ways disables Autistic people based on first hand experiences, referencing the timely book Empire of Normality by Dr Robert Chapman.

What mainstream society has to realise, and what especially well meaning potential employers have to realise is that the talents and strengths of many A♾tistic people are not accessible by hiring us as employees or by hiring us as individual contractors. Most of the A♾tistic people with a few decades of life experience under their belt that I have met know their sensory, emotional, and ethical limits, and recoil at the idea of employment in a hierarchically organised and “managed” company. We have been there often enough, and via the Internet, we have now had over 25 years of time to compare notes globally. Thanks, but No Thanks!

Co-creating A♾tistic livelihoods within a toxic institutional landscape

If this article seems to paint a bleak picture, it is because given the current institutional landscape, and given the dominant social ideology that is relentlessly reinforced by mainstream media and corporate controlled social media, the outlook for humanity is indeed bleak – very bleak.

But the older A♾tistic people that are still around are still around because deep down we are optimists, because we have not completely lost the ability to appreciate the wonder of life. We have found some good A♾tistic company along the way, at least sporadically, and increasingly, on an ongoing basis. This rare good A♾tistic company, outside the toxic institutional landscape, is what keeps us alive. This is what Mica and Quinn talk about, this is what I write about, this is how the AutCollab Education Team collaborates, this is how S23M operates as a NeurodiVenture (a worker co-op) – this is A♾tistic culture.

This article is intended for younger A♾tists who may find themselves pressured to undertake employment within the established institutional landscape, for older A♾tists who may find themselves clinging to a job in a toxic environment for dear life, for isolated older A♾tists who have burned out in the complete absence of good company, and for employers who are genuinely prepared to listen – prepared to engage with A♾tists people in unorthodox ways, and ideally prepared to learn lessons from 12 years of operating A♾tistic worker co-ops.

The employers that will most likely relate to Autistic people will be small company owners – small by our standards in Aotearoa, often less than ten people, but definitely less than 100 people. All small company owners with an ethical conscience are familiar with the need to put the needs of customers and employees before their own needs, often on an ongoing basis – many have arrived at doing what they do because they are neurodivergent.

Ethical entrepreneurship is not about “success” by the standards of a toxic institutional landscape, it is about co-creating livelihoods in good company, it is about nurturing long-term trustworthy relationships with co-workers, with suppliers, and with customers, embedded within cosmolocal community, it is about co-creating comprehensible ecologies of care beyond the human, and it is about open collaboration at eye level at all times.

The Autistic Collaboration Trust in collaboration with S23M and the Design Justice Network assists organisations that are committed to providing an inclusive and culturally and psychologically safe workplace.

The A♾tistic Collaboration community grows organically, at human scale, at a human pace, one trusted relationship at a time, in the form of self-organising small groups that collaborate on specific initiatives, contributing to the wellbeing of Autistic and otherwise neurodivergent and intersectionally marginalised people.

The story of infinite economic growth and technological progress portrays a completely delusional and scientifically impossible world, which not only ignores biophysical limits, but also human cognitive and emotional limits. Nurturing the human capacity to extend trust to each other, and engaging in the big cycle of life as part of an ecology of care beyond the human is the biggest challenge of our times.

For an A♾tistic person the pathway towards good company is distinctly different from the life trajectory mapped out by the expectations of mainstream culture. The most appropriate pathway for an A♾tistic person depends significantly on the surrounding social environment and the stage of life.

Onwards!

A big shout out to A♾tist Daan Verhoeven and his friends, and their incredible work, which I think many Autists will be able to relate to!

After years of struggling with depression, what helped me the most was creating things. Of course I also have to make sure I exercise and eat healthy, but once I combined them all, I had a much better handle on how dark my moods get. And when I discussed that with friends, it turned out this was pretty universal. They might have different creative outlets than my photos and videos, but they all found that making something, anything, be it a new business or a new skill or a book, was vital to them feeling better.

One of those friends is Sofía Gómez Uribe, who in the last couple of years has not only found a whole new way to approach her sport, but she also set up a freediving school in Dominica, creating new opportunities for people to learn and stimulating the local economy. Plus she makes perfect bubble rings, which I thought would be a good way to visually explain the idea of how something we create grows and then in turn, helps to create us. How your changing perspective can guide you to not just see things in a new way, but make new things as well.


– Daan Verhoeven

Stig Pryds is a Danish record holding freediver. He was diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis in 2008, which disabled him so much that he lost his business. After 5 years of intense pain and increasing dependency on drugs, he decided to quit all drugs cold turkey, and find alternative ways to deal with his disease. He began practising yoga daily, changed his diet, and started practising freediving. This caused drastic changes: within months he could walk without a cane, and he could play with his two young daughters again.

Stig Pryds on the importance of slowing down, on safety, and on good company:

And most importantly, a Big Thank You to my small & uniquely amazing Autistic ecology of care and to the wider AutCollab community of supporters and allies!

Therapy and beyond in a Post-WEIRD world

We are inviting neurodiversity and disability rights activists, Autistic psychotherapists and other Autistic health professionals, indigenous rights activists and scholars, as well as Buddhist and Daoist scholars. All these perspectives are highly valuable for the conversations and the omni-directional learning that is needed in these times.

Over the last 3 years, as a result of writing about Autistic ways of being and Autistic culture, and especially since the publication of The Beauty of Collaboration at Human Scale, I am having more and more conversations with Autistic and otherwise neurodivergent psychotherapists, as well as with neurodivergent health professionals from a broad range of disciplines.

As to be expected, Autistic health professionals have the same urgent need for peer support and mutual aid as other Autists, and the same applies to health professionals from other marginalised groups.

AutCollab is committed co-creating a comprehensive support model for Autists and otherwise neurodivergent and intersectionally marginalised people that is grounded in our collective lived experience, informed by what we are learning from the results of our ongoing participatory research.

The lived experiences of those Autists who spend many of their waking hours assisting other Autists constitute a repository of valuable knowledge and insights. The lived experiences I am curating from conversations within the AutCollab community seem to be appreciated by many neurodivergent therapists and former neurodivergent therapists, and are shaping the AutCollab Ecologies of Care support model for neurodivergent and intersectionally marginalised people.

Below is the list of topics that have been submitted for the NeurodiVerse Days of Solidarity this month. I am looking forward to seeing which topics participants will dive into!

  1. The Autistic experiences of modern day colonialism. What can the Neurodivergent community in the West do to support healing?
  2. Support for Autism, how to find and create a network within my community that I just came back from being abroad after 6 years.
  3. Navigating the political research landscape, when you don’t have a map or a guide, only a moral compass.
  4. Neurodiversity and psychedelics.
  5. Neurodiversity affirming group therapy.
  6. Neurodiversity affirming psychiatry.
  7. How to recover from autistic burnout?
  8. How medical providers can provide a safe and affirming environment tailored to strengths and challenges of autistic thinkers to help them more effectively meet their goals.
  9. Anti-imperialism; Afropessimism x “Marxism” (Marx hated the term); or the idea that the subjugation of Africa precipitates Capitalism, not the other way aroundGender Abolition: Investigating for ANY progressive origin of gender in any societyReclamation of “Disorder”: When Order is Hegemony.
  10. Autistic community, challenging social norms, education of young neurodiverse students.
  11. Time to listen to each others stories and to be heard. Can be focused on challenges we face, where we find joy, or be more free form.
  12. Education and how disabled groups can work together.
  13. Nurturing diversity in humans and non-human nature – bringing the two together.
  14. Non-violent communication.
  15. What would small ecologies of care look like?
  16. Register and add your topic!

Based on recent conversations with several neurodivergent therapists, I would like to add the title of this article, Therapy and beyond in a Post-WEIRD world, as an additional topic to explore.

According to our glorious leaders in government and industry, the Western world is still Educated, Industrialised, Rich, and Democratic. But on the growing margins of society, hardly anyone believes this anymore. Rather the Western world has been heavily indoctrinated, increasingly de-industrialised, the gaps between rich and poor are widening, and democracy has become a spectacular form of elite performance theatre.

It is completely unsurprising that the demand for peer support and mutual aid is going through the roof, and that the mental health of marginalised people is in a correspondingly bad state.

How does psychotherapy fit into this picture?

The modern disciplines of psychology and psychiatry are a product of the European industrial era, focused on helping people to cope with the mental burden and cognitive dissonance that is generated by having to function – or pretending to be functioning – as a cog in the industrialised machine. The problems of alienation are as old as industrialisation. Karl Marx is famous for writing extensively about it.

After decades of outsourcing and offshoring, many of the so-called rich nations are no longer heavily industrialised in the classical sense of producing material goods. Instead, many people work in the so-called service sector, and many of those who have attained higher levels of indoctrination, i.e. certified professionals, work in bullshit jobs. Those performing such jobs know that their job is entirely meaningless, and in many cases, that it actively contributes to the modern human predicament.

This is the result of an oxymoronic “economic” system that literally optimises for the appearance of busyness. This is not a joke, and many Autistic and otherwise marginalised people are fully aware of this fact.

The specific challenge that mental health professionals face is a Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) that reflects the cultural bias of Post-WEIRD “normality”, in which sanctified bullshit is the informational fuel that runs the so-called economy. The psy disciplines, being an integral performative part of the economic system, have resulted in a therapy industry that is heavily dependent on a steady stream of “clients”.

The therapy industry is most developed in the Anglosphere, and especially in the United States. Many therapists and psychiatrists have the best intentions, and genuinely want to help people, but whatever assistance they provide, at the latest when patients are sent back into the economic engine to “perform” in the mono-cult that is liquidating the living planet, they will again suffer from predictable mental health problems.

Mental health professionals want to help, yet can only offer very temporary assistance and emergency relief. At the same time, especially if they are neurodivergent, they often find themselves in situations that mirror the impossible situations they encounter amongst their patients, including lack of psychological and cultural safety in the work environment.

Furthermore, many marginalised neurodivergent people, irrespective of their line of work and expertise, tend to be locally isolated – they are not embedded in a supportive ecology of care of trustworthy family and friends. These considerations have led to the multiple human scale time horizons, which are integral to the Ecology of Care support model:

Time horizons relevant for human wellbeing

Depending on the context of a specific situation, one or more of the following time horizons may be relevant for our mental health and for supporting each other within an ecology of care:

Acute Emergency: Focus on the here and now, to complement emergency mental health support, to listen to those in distress, and help them regain the capacity to engage in mutual aid networks.

Surviving: Focus on the here and now, on the mutual aid needed to cope on a daily basis, within the current social operating model.

Evolving/de-powering: Focus on the year(s) ahead, to rediscover the beauty of collaboration at human scale and the timeless patterns of human limitations.

Thriving: Focus on the 7 generations ahead, integrating lived experiences from the last 7 generations, to participate in comprehensible local ecologies of care beyond the human, and to live meaningfully, compassionately, and courageously no matter what.

Humans evolved to have most of their social and wellbeing needs met via relationships at human scale and smaller, across all four time horizons. We can visualise our relationships as an evolving system of concentric Circles of Care.

  1. Intimate partner
  2. Household
  3. Human scale ecology of care / whānau / extended family
  4. Bioregional ecology of care
  5. Planetary ecology of care

Perpetually stuck in survival mode

The capitalist conception of society as individuals and households has literally atomised our ecologies of care (hint: “nuclear” family) to create new opportunities for markets and capital to extract greater levels of profit from the social fabric. Healthy extended multi-household families functioning as a mutual aid network and economising unit simply don’t provide optimal leverage points for maximising GDP growth and for coercing everyone into artificial busyness and consumption.

Nuclear families and atomised societies are essential for the “wellbeing” of the industrialised machine, but as it turns out, counterproductive in terms of human wellbeing and the health of bioregional and planetary ecosystems.

As an added bonus, the resulting chronic mental and physical health conditions have led to entire new industries of over-worked health professionals. The Autism Industrial Complex exemplifies the underlying intent: anyone who does not meet the exacting industrial definition of the standard Human® as demanded by Capitalism Inc, receives a pathologising label and is subjected to traumatising “normalisation” treatment.

Ubiquitous mental distress and traumatised populations set the scene for the psychotherapy industry. Everyone is desperate for assistance, but even the best assistance that is on offer within the system keeps people trapped in survival mode – because there simply is no exit from the toxic mono-cult.

Re-creating or co-creating healthy human scale ecologies of care, i.e. entire ecologies of healthy enduring relationships, lies far beyond the capabilities of health professionals and psychotherapists, who are as entrapped in the toxic bigger social system as everyone else.

The time horizon of Capitalism Inc is limited to quarterly financial results, and the time horizon of WEIRD politicians and governments extends as best to 3 or 4 year election cycles, roughly on par with the job hopping cycle of obedient Human® cogs in the industrial machine.

A culture that has no institutions that attend to the basic human need for stable ecologies of care across multiple generations is a deeply sick culture.

(Re)opening space for breathing, thinking, and solidarity

How do we glue atomised societies back together into healthy ecologies of care beyond the human? This is not something that we learn in school or in our universities. This is something that we need to figure out together, at human scale, in an adequately safe environment, which is not something that any industry or government provides – it is also something we need to co-create.

One useful technique that I can draw on is 24 years of experience in facilitating Open Space, which is a minimalist practice of self-organisation of people who have come together to address one or more wicked problems. In my experience Autistic people take to Open Space like fish to water, because there is no one who pretends to be “in control”, and because everyone is actively encouraged to spend their time in a place where they are either learning or contributing to the learning of others – and to use their two feet as needed to remain in such a place throughout the workshop. Also, Open Space tends to consist of small groups of between 2 and 7 people. An experienced facilitator will encourage larger groups to divide into smaller groups and then reconvene for short periods in a larger circle to share (intermediate) results.

You can experience Open Space by joining the NeurodiVerse Days of Solidarity.

We have adapted Open Space to online environments that offer multiple communication modalities, including text only. Furthermore, we accommodate asynchronous communication by allowing people to contribute over the course of four weeks, whenever they have the time and the spoons to do so.

However, a person who is currently finds themselves in an acute emergency or is struggling in survival mode, at risk of slipping into an emergency situation, won’t be able to benefit from Open Space, and may need a less stimulating and dynamic environment to relearn how to feel safe in a small group context. This is where Autistic psychotherapists can offer valuable experience from group therapy settings.

One possible way of integrating Open Space with group therapy settings is to offer one or more streams of group therapy alongside dynamic Open Space break out groups.

In-person NeurodiVerse Days of Solidarity?

A month ago I was asked whether I would be interested in perhaps organising and co-ordinating a retreat for Autistic therapists. This fits well with what I had been discussing locally with Autistic friends in terms of local / regional community building – we are thinking of organising a meeting amongst Autistic activists in Aotearoa. I now live on a plot of land where there is some space to organise meetings, including two small houses and a 50 sqm workshop (shed). Our two households are collaborating on growing food locally, and we are planting a little food forest.

For a multi-day workshop of Autistic activists and therapists, including from overseas, I could organise accommodation in the nearby hotels or AirBnBs. Depending on how many people are interested, we can expand the venue to a suitable hotel in the small city here. To get everything organised, and to give all of us adequate time to prepare, fit the event into our calendars, and book travel, I am thinking that perhaps September or October 2024 would be a good target to aim for. Of course we can also offer ways of contributing remotely for those who are unable to attend in person.

For such an in-person retreat / workshop, I would propose Catalysing healthy ecologies of care beyond the human as the overarching theme, with Therapy and beyond in a Post-WEIRD world as the sub-title.

I am looking forward to jointly developing this idea during the NeurodiVerse Days of Solidarity this month (April)! All your ideas and input are welcome!

The theme and the timing fits well with our plans for incrementally rolling out and jointly refining the AutCollab Ecologies of Care support model for neurodivergent and intersectionally marginalised people. You are encouraged to review the current outline of the model and contribute your ideas and experiences.

Registration of Interest : Catalysing Ecologies of Care

If you would like to participate in an in-person retreat in Aotearoa on the theme of catalysing healthy ecologies of care beyond the human sometime later this year, please register interest below.

We are inviting neurodiversity and disability rights activists, Autistic psychotherapists and other Autistic health professionals, indigenous rights activists and scholars, as well as Buddhist and Daoist scholars. All these perspectives are highly valuable for the conversations and the omni-directional learning that is needed in these times.

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Bringing human imagination down to Earth

Over the last 5,000 years the ambiguities of linear written narratives and convenient interpretations have played a big role in amplifying social power gradients. The story of infinite economic growth and technological progress portrays a completely delusional and scientifically impossible world, which not only ignores biophysical limits, but also human cognitive and emotional limits. Nurturing the human capacity to extend trust to each other, and engaging in the big cycle of life as part of an ecology of care beyond the human is the biggest challenge of our times.

The institutions and accepted cultural practices of the modern world are traumatising the entire planet. The polycrisis, which is the modern human predicament that we are all living through, can be illustrated with three short cultural narratives:

  1. A timely indigenous commentary on WEIRD culture from the US.
  2. The effects of the one-dimensional “logic” of global capital can be understood by looking at the overall cultural and ecological impact on the small island nation of Nauru.
  3. The effects of the arbitrary anthropocentric cut-off points of the bell curve in the social realm can also be understood by looking at the overall cultural and ecological impact on a small island nation such as Tuvalu.

These narratives illustrate the cognitive and emotional blindspots that are baked into “normality”.

The profound life destroying impact of the modern human obsession with measuring, and then reducing the dimensionality of all problem spaces to the one-dimensional metric of financial capital can hardly be overestimated. The classic novel Flatland comes to mind. Flatland illustrates the confusions and the loss of meaning created by reducing 4 dimensional spacetime to 2 spatial dimensions and the dimension of time, i.e. a reduction of a 4 dimensional problem space to 3 dimensions.

The semantic chemical building blocks of the biological world we inhabit contain thousands of dimensions. If we add emergent phenomena at larger levels of scale, we live in a world of millions and billions of semantic dimensions. We all have our own unique way of making sense of the world, from the perspective of the relational ecology of care that surrounds us.

And yet, we live in a world where human social affairs, across all levels of scale, are dominated by a one-dimensional metric. Some still recognise that there is “life out there” beyond finance, but our minds have been warped by the extensive exposure to a one-dimensional metric.

Language

Over the last 5,000 years, linear written language and convenient interpretation have played a big role in amplifying social power gradients.

In Aotearoa a group of Maori scholars have produced an excellent 400 page report, comparing the English and Maori version of the Treaty of Waitangi, meticulously uncovering all the linguistic techniques that were used by the British Crown to create and then maintain the illusion of a partnership between equals.

Written language is frequently used to distract from the ambiguities of linear narratives, creating wriggling room for convenient interpretations, especially when key details can be hidden by exploiting the semantic blind spots created by the translation between two very different languages.

Stepping back, looking across all empire building civilisations, the collective learning disability induced by powered-up social relationships can be traced to the following ways of systematically distorting and dismissing lived experiences:

  • Oversimplification by reducing complex problem spaces to a much lower (one!) dimensional space. This is the commonality across all pyramidal systems of power – there is one perspective that dominates over all others.
  • Inducing a systemic power differential by distorting the oversimplified one dimensional metric with the notion of “interest”. This is the religion of economics.
  • Watering down the precautionary principle via cognitive blind spots created by the arbitrary “normalising” cut-off points of the bell curve in the social realm. Example: entire island nations completely get ignored until they are doomed. Their local existence is deemed “insignificant” in relation to what happens in the so-called “real”, i.e. the big “normative” world where all decisions are made. This is the scientism that is blooming in the era of big junk data.
  • Systematically exploiting the ambiguities of linear narratives by nominating a convenient “authority” for interpretation. For a current example, we only need to look at the way Julian Assange is treated by the British Crown. I remember growing up in a world that had Soviet dissidents. This century the United States are producing American dissidents. Power always corrupts. The Anglosphere is “leading” the world in legal engineering and perception management.
  • Systematically exploiting cognitive blind spots created by translations between different languages, again by nominating a convenient “authority” for interpretation. Aotearoa is a poster child for this approach. This goes hand in hand with implicit assumption that some languages are more “primitive” than others.
  • A misguided focus on “winning” arguments rather than engaging in omni-directional learning to better understand each other. This is the bullying that is taught in busyness schools, i.e. the powered-up “art” of marketing, sales, and corporate power politics. The most honest conversation that I have had on this topic was with a former technology investor who describes busyness schools as “places that train people how to become a bad person”. My own attempts at educating MBA students in the neurodiversity paradigm were also disillusioning and traumatising.
  • There may be further distorting factors that can’t be traced to a combination of the above. Your lived experience is much appreciated!

None of this is new. The Daoists knew as much from lived experiences with powered-up empires over 2,500 years ago. The elements above are the cultural foundation on top of which it becomes possible to establish a “science” of ABA, which deserves to be renamed to Applied Behaviourism and Arm twisting.

To make sense of the world, to stay tethered to human scale, to survive, to adapt, and to thrive together, the salient question in categorising beliefs is not the question of truth versus fiction, but the question of trustworthy versus not trustworthy. This in turn is a human scale context specific cultural question.

I want to focus on two interconnected cultural topics – imagination and trust. The way we approach these two topics shapes human lived experiences – and thus the kinds of cultural practices that will emerge and the cultural practices that will fade into the background over the coming decades, with implications for the amount of human and non-human suffering that is unfolding.

Imagination

Human imagination is an essential part of human life and human culture. Without it we would not be human.

The presentation The Truth About Fiction – Biological Reality & Imaginary Lives by Joseph Carroll is a useful tool for a WEIRD audience, to remind culturally well adapted people that human imagination is an essential part of human culture.

If our imagination is limited to cartoon characters and entertainment that mimics our current culture or runs through dystopian scenarios, then that is the contracted sphere of discourse and the self fulfilling prophecy of denial and despair in which we exist and navigate into the future.

What can expand our sphere of discourse is mutual trust, so that we can jointly imagine a radically different future that does not violate biophysical limits.

If we focus our imagination on minimising the human and non-human suffering that lies ahead, without discounting the scientific facts about ecological overshoot, global inequities, rapid global heating, the material constraints we will hit within the coming decades, and the growing mental health crisis, then we can avoid the most dystopian scenarios.

In terms of overall philosophy, I am aligned with Vandana Shiva, trusting the collective intelligence of the living planet more than any human intelligence. This amounts to an explicit acknowledgement of human limitations, a commitment to strengthen our integration into local ecosystems, and a commitment to weakening our dependence on powered-up institutions such as capital, corporations, and national governments.

Looking ahead: At worst, we can hospice modernity on our way out over the next few generations. At best, after a period of population decline, radical energy descent, and co-ordinated retreat from uninhabitable parts of the planet, bringing human imagination back down to Earth may allow a smaller number of humans to develop a diverse ecology of gentler cosmolocal cultures that play a nurturing, life giving role within the planetary ecosystem.

A world where there is infinite economic growth, with no concern for biophysical limits nor for human cognitive and emotional limits, is a completely delusional and scientifically impossible world, the result of atomised imagination, crippled by fear and denial of death.

An ecology of care beyond the human, where there is less suffering and more shared understanding, love, compassion, and ecological wisdom at human scale, is not only scientifically possible, it is also within the reach of our collective imagination, the result of gratitude for a big regenerative cycle of life far beyond human comprehensibility.

Capitalism has all the characteristics of a cult. The discovery and mindless exploitation of fossil fuels has allowed human cultures to become infected by a global mono-cult, which we see reflected in the pathologisation, dehumanisation, and marginalisation of neurodivergent, disabled, and indigenous peoples. Addictive pyramid schemes have replaced the cyclical nature of living systems with a delusional progress narrative.

Beyond focusing our collective human capacity for imagination on collaborative niche construction at human scale, and recognising our human scale cognitive and emotional limits, I would like to see human ambitions dialled down to cosmolocal sharing of lived experiences and to potentially reusable knowledge via a decentralised knowledge commons, along the lines of Open Source Software and Open Research, with no commercial interference in the categorisation and accessibility of knowledge.

Of course that goal is completely beyond my “control”! So I don’t worry about it at scale, and instead focus on doing what I can achieve within in my own small ecology of care, trusting that evolutionary forces far beyond the human are taking care of the living planet at larger scales.

A simple one-liner such as “think globally, live cosmolocally at human scale, within your cognitive and emotional limits, and don’t get distracted by ideological pyramid schemes” is not far off the mark.

Mutual trust

The evolution of the capacity for language and culture deepened the human capacity for shared understanding, mutual trust, and mutual aid.

Social arrangements that involve enduring structures of hierarchical social power are best understood as an abstract cultural parasite that feeds on the human capacity for language and culture. Powered-up interactions (i.e. misunderstandings and conflicts that are not resolved via de-powered dialogue, greater levels of shared understanding, and compassion) result in cognitive dissonance, mistrust, and and eventually manifest in relational trauma, weakening the ecology of care, and externally, the adaptability of the cultural organism relative to other cultural organisms.

The human capacity to extend and appreciate trust at human scale is part of our evolutionary heritage, Nurturing this capacity, and learning how to engage in the big cycle of life as part of an ecology of care beyond the human is the biggest challenge of our times.

The history of civilisations has shown us again and again that mutual trust does not scale to super human scale institutions.

Like “maturity” and “reality” and “progress”, the word “technology” has an agenda for your behavior: usually what is being referred to as “technology” is something that somebody wants you to submit to.  “Technology” often implicitly refers to something you are expected to turn over to “the guys who understand it.” This is actually almost always a political move. Somebody wants you to give certain things to them to design and decide. Perhaps you should, but perhaps not. This applies especially to “media”.

– Ted Nelson, from The Myth of Technology

Intersectional solidarity

We are catalysing intersectional solidarity via quarterly participant driven NeurodiVerse Days of Solidarity, which provide a safe space for neurodivergent, indigenous, and otherwise marginalised people to engage in omni-directional learning and mutual aid.

Open Space

Whoever comes is the right people.
Whatever happens is the only thing that could have.
When it starts is the right time.
When it’s over, it’s over.

Join us in April 2024, and we will keep you informed about the specific events and activities that emerge based on the submissions and ideas we receive.

Celebrate the diversity of humankind – Embrace your weirdness

4th of March is Weird Pride Day. This is a day for people to embrace their weirdness, and reject the stigma associated with being weird. To publicly express pride in the things that make us weird, and to celebrate the diversity of humankind.

Many people need desperately to receive this message: ‘I feel and think much as you do, care about many of the things you care about, although most people do not care about them. You are not alone.’
– Kurt Vonnegut, Timequake

To be weird is to be alive. Sailing into the headwind, together. All over the world, people on the margins are converging on the universal language of ecologies of care, weaving new threads into the relational fabric of life:

We all know that the world is in crisis. We are all in crisis, and the path forward is a path through despair – together, participating in omni-directional learning and embracing the unknowable future.

“Normality” is shaped by the many things culturally well adjusted people don’t notice, and by the many things they take for granted. The hump of the bell curve is the false God of Normality.

On Weird Pride Day you are invited to write and talk, make art and videos about what people think is weird about you – and why (and how) you accept these things about yourself.

This could include:

  • Stories
  • Reflections
  • Calls to action
  • How to be weird safely

Jointly embracing our weirdness helps us to leave behind the WEIRD mono-cult, by nurturing emergent and beautifully diverse ecologies of care. Weird Pride Day started in 2021, but its roots go back a long way before that.

Too many of us have tried to tone down our weirdness for friends or partners, only to later learn that we were suppressing the best things about us. There’s no joy like the joy of being your strange self and finding that there are people who love you for it.

Celebrating the infinitely diverse ways of being human

AutCollab Education invites you to participate in Neurodiversity Celebration Week and to learn directly from the neurodiversity and disability rights movement via paradigm shifting professional education courses.

The objectives of the neurodiversity and disability rights movements overlap significantly with the struggles of indigenous peoples. All people are fully human.

Neurodiversity Celebration Week is not only about neurodivergent students, it is also about the many neurodivergent teachers, parents, artists, and professionals and entrepreneurs in all sectors of our economy – who are unable to act as role models for neurodivergent students when having to remain undercover, to avoid bullying, ruthless exploitation, and systematic discrimination in their workplaces. It will not come as a surprise that most neurodivergent students and educators have negative school experiences.

Our education team is working with neurodivergent teachers globally to facilitate sector wide education in the neurodiversity paradigm, the neurodiversity movement, and related cultural change.

We are your partners, lovers, friends, carers, nurses, clinicians, teachers, parents, children, and colleagues. Yet, we live in a world that is not safe for us.

Our ability to fulfil our potential is being threatened by the stigma associated with having been labelled with a “disorder” or a “special” educational need, and by the misconceptions many people still have about Autistic people and people with learning differences. In a hypernormative society that pathologises human diversity we are more vulnerable and at risk of being mistreated.

Neurodiversity is part of the biodiversity of all animals with nervous systems. It is not limited to humans, and it is part of the biological diversity that enables species to survive, adapt, evolve, and thrive, even in changing environmental conditions.

AutCollab Education is assisting schools and universities with unique interactive education courses to create a more inclusive educational landscape that prepares students and teachers for life in a time of ecological overshoot, frequent extreme weather events, and unavoidable rapid social change in the coming decades.

Our comprehensive professional education offering is based on ongoing participatory research. All our courses are delivered by intersectionally diverse educators with decades of lived experience. We are curating timeless concepts for nurturing and describing inclusive ecologies of care.

AutCollab Education is very different from education about neurodiversity in the language of the pathology paradigm, which frames neurodivergent people in terms of deficits relative to the current neuronormative culture, perhaps with a few special splinter skills thrown in for Feel Good Effect.

The course Introduction to the Neurodiversity Paradigm and Intersectionality is an interactive “deep dive” into neurodiversity and autistic culture. It is creative, collaborative, and goes beyond the usual medical and workplace neurodiversity ideas. Very refreshing to take part in CPD catering to different learning and communication styles. It was the most fun I’ve had in CPD this year! The course book is beautiful.
– Dr Sarah Bernard FRACP, Australia

Surviving on the edges of modern society is an art. The arts and regular immersion in genuinely safe Open Spaces help us imagine and co-create ecologies of care in which care and mutual aid are the primary values. Within the context of the polycrisis that shapes the modern human predicament, the urgency of cultural evolution can not be addressed from within the paradigm of an education system from the early industrial era. Healthy Artistic and Autistic life paths by necessity differ from “normality”.

Autists in particular learn and play differently, because our senses work differently, and because we make sense of the world in different ways. Our sensory profiles don’t allow us to push cognitive dissonance out of conscious awareness. We feel and know that a way of life that traumatises large segments of the population and the non-human world does not make any sense. We need to slow down, to the relational speed of life.

In order to bring about this change, we need your help:

Neurodiversity Celebration Week

Your school can participate in Neurodiversity Celebration Week, 18th – 24th March 2024.

We recommend the following short explanatory videos for introducing students to the neurodiversity movement and the neurodiversity paradigm:

  1. Biodiversity and neurodiversity
  2. The challenges faced by indigenous, Autistic, and other marginalised people
  3. The birth of Autistic community

Learn from the Neurodiversity & Disability Rights Movement

You can deepen your understanding and educational toolkit by learning directly from the neurodiversity and disability rights movement via our paradigm shifting professional education courses.

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Our partners and allies

Regular Open Space with members of the neurodiversity and disability rights movement is a tool for jointly embarking on a unique journey of omni-directional learning and intersectional community co-creation that leaves no one behind.

A visual language for describing wellbeing

In indigenous societies human scale groups are those who we regularly rely on for mutual aid and assistance. In small societies without abstract formal authorities, everyone learns from everyone. The relational complexity of life, and the effects of the current de-humanising economic paradigm can’t easily be condensed into words. Instead, a visual language provides more possibilities for conveying the nuances and context of specific constellations in succinct diagrams.

The relational complexity of life can’t easily be condensed into words. Instead a visual language provides more possibilities for describing the nuances and the context of specific constellations in succinct diagrams.

Relationships

Each of our relationships is a feedback loop that is visualised as a circle.

The relative importance / intimacy of our relationships is visualised in terms of the relative size differences between circles. The extent to which two relationships are based on compatible interests and sensitivities is visualised in terms of the level of overlap between circles.

Households

We use red circles to denote the relationships with the humans and other living beings in the household in which we live.

If we live in a one-person household, our map does not contain any red circles.

Extended family / whānau

We use orange circles to denote our relationships with the humans and living beings in our extended family / whānau.

Beyond the household, In indigenous societies human scale families / whānau are those who we regularly rely on for mutual aid and assistance to survive and thrive. In Māori culture the whānau is the smallest viable economic unit rather than the household. Evolutionary biologist David Sloan Wilson describes such small ‘human scale’ groups as the primary organisms in human societies – as opposed to individuals or households / nuclear families.

For this reason we visually denote the scope of extended family / whānau in terms of orange coloured background.

Relationships beyond family / whānau

We use green circles to denote our relationships with humans and living beings beyond our extended family / whānau.

Prior to the modern era, all our relationships with humans and living beings beyond our extended family / whānau would be limited to those who we regularly encounter in the bioregion in which we live.

Emergence and evolution of culture and values

With the help of written language, WEIRD societies and powered-up empires emphasise and formalised a top-down perspective on the propagation of cultural practices and values. With the context of empires, education is no longer primarily about omni-directional learning at human scale, but it degrades into various forms of uni-directional indoctrination, administered by those in formal positions of “authority”.

In small human scale societies without abstract formal authorities, everyone learns from everyone, primarily by observation, imitation, and asking for assistance. For small children in human scale societies the household and extended family provide a rich environment for omni-directional learning.

As older children grow into adult responsibilities, they also become introduced to people beyond their family, and thereby expand scope of their relationships to a bioregional scale.

So-called values are useful abstractions and relative preferences that emerge from our relationships and from immersive omni-directional learning at human scale.

We ‘relate’ to these abstractions and preferences, and we regularly reflect on their relative importance when we encounter cognitive dissonance in one or more of our relationships.

As needed we refine or reconfigure our values and/or some of our relationships with humans and other living beings to minimise cognitive dissonance, and maintain a healthy ecology of care.

We do not arrive at values and preferences in isolation, but within our dynamically evolving social context. Values are best understood as a second order cultural process, the derivative that emerges from our attempts of minimising cognitive dissonance across all our relationships.

The “self” is a WEIRD cultural artefact that denotes the “sovereign” individual, an abstraction, which according to neocolonial / neoliberal dogma, we should value above all else. It is much healthier to understand the self in terms of our deeply held values, which are the product of our lived experience in the ecology of care that we are embedded in – which may or may not be in a healthy state.

In a healthy ecology of care our values may be closely aligned with the values of those with engage with on a daily basis. In an unhealthy ecology of care, our values will be shaped by the cognitive dissonance and the harm we are exposed to. Some of our values may then be consciously chosen in opposition to harmful experiences we have had to endure. If our ecology of care remains unhealthy, our values may eventually compel us to develop healthier relationships in a different social environment.

WEIRD education is focused on turning playful and curious children into self-conscious individuals in a competitive world. Most of WEIRD psychology is concerned about developing a healthy “self” that is prepared to engage in the WEIRD game of “earning a living”, in competition with other self-conscious individuals. Increasingly WEIRD medicine is about treating the long-term effects of the chronic stress experienced by self-conscious individuals who are no longer embedded in a healthy ecology of care.

To understand the diagrams in the next section, please remember that the visual language used represents relationships (not individuals) as circles, and that every human in an ecology of care has their own unique lived experiences, including their own feelings and mental models of the state of health of the various relationships within their ecology of care.

Diagnosing diseases in our ecology of care

The loneliness epidemic in WEIRD societies is a direct result of the misguided educational ambition of creating independent individuals. The immediate effect is that many young adults lose contact with their family / whānau. The effect is amplified by an economic paradigm that focuses on the household / nuclear family as the main economic unit. WEIRD societies have replaced the useful capability of critical / independent thought with an emphasis on so-called economic independence.

Loneliness

The absence of supportive family is the ideal precondition for instilling the level of fear in young adults that is needed to coerce everyone to join the cult of busyness and climb the ladder of “success”, to earn an “independent” living, which ironically heavily depends on complete submission to abstract institutions in far away places that are blind to the nuances of local social contexts.

In principle, some digital technologies can be used to develop virtual human scale ecologies of care, but corporate controlled social media technologies are designed to serve the interests of capital. Entrapping people in addictive competitive social games is the exact opposite of catalysing healthy ecologies of care.

Loneliness is not an individual problem. It is an unavoidable cultural problem generated by a misguided, life destroying economic ideology.

Unhealthy relationships

The bizarre cultural notion of “independence” and the pressure on everyone to “earn” a living easily leads to strained relationships and value conflicts within households, affecting the relationships between parents and children and the relationships between intimate partners.

Unhealthy families

Families with too few outside relationships don’t have to feel unhealthy, but they may easily run into difficulties when overwhelmed by emergencies such as natural disasters, which may require assistance and skills that are not readily available locally. Isolated families are also at risk of developing toxic social power dynamics that do feel unhealthy, from which there is no escape route since no one has access to trusted external relationships that could be relied upon.

A common unhealthy scenario involves isolated households that are not embedded in a supportive extended family / whānau that can be relied upon for mutual aid. The lack of extended family support pushes households into unhealthy levels of dependencies on powered-up super-human scale institutions, and it makes individuals highly vulnerable to economic exploitation by corporations.

Social diseases at human scale

The above scenarios illustrate broad categories of social diseases at human scale. The same visual language can be used to map out and communicate concrete social constellations in a way that shifts the focus away from pathologising or blaming individuals towards a relational and ecological perspective at the level of communities and families.

Including values in visual relationship maps, and encouraging all family members to draw a visual relationship map from their unique perspective, can help catalyse greater levels of shared understanding, appreciation of nuance and complexity, draw attention towards toxic factors in the institutional landscape, and highlight the limits and the potential for harm of self-centred therapies.

Social diseases beyond human scale

The actual effect of the myth of meritocracy, which is used to normalise and rationalise head to head competition, is a consistent bias to over-represent capabilities, and to actively avoid thinking about externalities. This is familiar to anyone who has ever been exposed to advertising, which is deployed systematically, at global scale. The cult of busyness undermines attempts at creating a shared understanding at a very basic level. The collective effects at scale and over decades are disastrous. Using a suitable diagrammatic language, they can be visualised in terms of life destroying feedback loops between super-human scale institutions and human scale groups.

Awareness of the paralysed state of normality is experienced as hyper-normality, an extreme state of cognitive dissonance, where all of human life has morphed into a competitive social game of pretend play, where the pretense of technological and social progress has become the main objective of the game.

Slow, small, and local is beautiful

The dynamic process of life is a fractal web/cycle of feedback loops that uses the energy of the sun to play creatively with the second law of thermodynamics. By burning through fossil fuels a million times faster than it took for carbon to be sequestered by biological and geological processes, industrialised societies have created an uncontained ecological disaster that is changing the biosphere at a rate that far exceeds the rate at which complex life forms (including mammals and humans) are able to evolve and adapt. This civilisation is finished.

There are many creative ways for navigating the unavoidable process of unWEIRDing industrialisation. We can only reactivate the reservoir of human imagination by fully re-humanising all neurodivergent and otherwise marginalised people who operate outside the industrialised paradigm. On the journey of unWEIRDing and simplifying, permaculture pioneer David Holmgren recommends scavenging as a pragmatic cultural practice in the coming decades.

The example of unWEIRDing below relates to the production of chairs:

  1. Automated mass production: keeping people busy with consumption of short lived, mass produced goods shipped from far away places
  2. Carpentry with a few power tools: paying attention to detail, crafting goods that will last a lifetime and longer
  3. Manual carpentry: simplifying the design, and reducing non-local resource use by eliminating spurious complexity

Crafts practiced without modern power tools in a local context are practiced within a relational ecology of care, outside the industrialised economic paradigm. The commentary of the crafts person is revealing:

I made this chair for my mother’s birthday since she likes sitting on the floor. I made her a tatami chair. If you’re thinking about building one yourself, it’s relatively easy if you have enough time!

This is a great example of how a relational ecology of care and gifts enhances human wellbeing, without any reliance on highly energy and resource intensive tools.

Crafts practiced with the help of modern power tools allow us to produce high quality bespoke goods that would take much longer to produce without modern technologies, which are impossible produce using techniques of mass production. The resulting quality is appreciated by discerning customers, even within the paradigm of advanced industrial automation. This is a first step of unWEIRDing, which reintroduces a relationship of mutual appreciation between crafts person and buyer.

Mass produced goods, which are a defining characteristic of industrialisation, replace large parts of the relational fabric of human societies with anonymous transactions. We should not be surprised that we experiences the results in terms of social diseases.

Appreciating the cyclical nature of all life

All living organisms are equipped with embodied capabilities for reproduction. This allows species to proliferate and enage in collaborative niche construction. But as least as important, all living organisms are fully compostable – the process of life eventually composts and decomposes all living organisms into the building blocks for new forms of life.

The organisms of each species have evolved to occupy a particular niche in space and time, including the species specific average lifespan – the time between being conceived and being composted into basic building blocks for new life. In a very literal sense living organisms give rise to conditions conducive to life, as part of the virtuous fractal system of feedback loops that includes all living beings. Death is as much part of the wonder of life as is birth.

A culture that denies death or that attempts to indefinitely delay the unavoidable death of individual human organisms is a life denying, highly anthropocentric, and ultimately self-destructive culture.

Firstly, small human scale groups rather than individuals are the primary organisms of human societies. Unless the individual process of dying is an integral part of the ecology of care of a human scale cultural organism, individuals feel disconnected from life, including disconnected from those that are supposed to be close to them. We all know we are going to die, yet if death is primarily seen as a failure of a human body to survive, how can anyone feel welcome, connected, and appreciated within their local social context?

Secondly, all ecologies of care are fractal in nature, extending over many levels of scale. Complex life forms include vast and diverse biomes of microorganisms, and all living beings can only sustain themselves in the presence of other living beings or in the presence of conditions co-created in collaboration with other living beings. Plants have integrated parts that are designed to be eaten by animals into their reproductive cycle, and animals are part of complex food webs.

Overall, the complexity of the global planetary ecosystem / ecology of care far exceeds human comprehensibility. Humans evolved to adequately comprehend human scale ecologies of care, both individually and collectively, in terms of cultural practices.

It is only in the context of agriculture and written language that powering-up human social relationships has allowed the size of human groups to exceed human scale. It is important to realise that the emergence of super-human scale groups was an emergent phenomenon that evolved relatively rapidly, in the abstract realm of culture, compared to the much slower speed of biological / genetic evolution. The emergence of powered-up empires happened without any commensurate evolution of individual human cognitive and emotional capacities, and without a commensurate collective understanding of the effect on the overall human ecological footprint.

Looking back over the course of the history of all human empire building attempts with 20/20 hindsight, we have clear evidence that powered-up empires consistently induce a degradation of ecological diversity, which inevitably results in an eventual collapse of social complexity. Powered-up empires can be conceptualised as ecologically toxic agents, resulting in a brittle cancerous mono-culture. At human scale, empires manifest in terms of social diseases.

The modern myth of technological progress denies the cyclical nature of life. It completely lacks appreciation of the deep wisdom that is embodied in the compostability of all life.

The delusion of technological progress, and the delusional idea of humans being able to adequately to understand and control the living planet via hierarchically powered-up institutions is the ultimate example of failing to understand human cognitive and emotional limits. Many indigenous people and otherwise marginalised people clearly see the dangers of WEIRD anthropocentric hubris and self-importance.

Healthy and unhealthy freedoms

The emphasis on so-called individual freedoms in WEIRD societies primarily plays into the hands of abstract powered-up institutions. In a world where many adults are employed by powered-up abstract institutions, individual freedoms are largely limited to so-called consumer choices from a range of services and products over which the individual has no control whatsoever.

WEIRD freedoms

The corporate profit motive combined with the need to “earn a living” leave little room for consumer choices to have any systemic impact, or for individuals to be more ethically discerning in the jobs that they engage in and the employers that they agree to work for. Furthermore, often economic constraints also prevent individuals from leaving toxic and isolating nuclear family systems.

The influence of the interests of capital and corporate power on the politics is no longer hidden. Bypassing and subverting the democratic process has become fully normalised. For example:

Amazon Web Services (AWS) asked Jacinda Ardern to appoint an “empowered” minister or senior officials to collaborate on getting an Overseas Investment Office consent without delays and to discuss bringing in skilled IT workers from abroad, among other things, an Official Information Act (OIA) response shows.

AWS also said: “We would very much like to discuss opportunities we see for fine-tuning New Zealand’s policy settings that can support public sector cloud technology enablement”, including how Amazon could meet the requirements to host highly classified data.

The 39-page OIA contains correspondence between Ardern, her office, and several of the dozen data centre companies that previously released documents show have been asking for government support and asking ministers to cut the red tape on their various data centre construction projects in Auckland and the South Island.

The two largest global players, AWS and Microsoft, are at the forefront of the correspondence.

Even the ways in which governments are ranked in terms of levels of corruption have been shaped by the interests of capital rather than by the interests of citizens. The open forms of corruption encountered in less-WEIRD countries are demonised, whilst the more sophisticated and hidden forms of corruption that dominate in WEIRD countries are not widely recognised as systemic problems.

Both the Internet and economic theories are best understood as prescriptive rather than as observational tools – as language systems that are based on specific European/North American cultural conventions that are assumed as “sensible” (common sense) or “obvious” (self-evident). With these language systems in place you can measure data flows and economic performance, but only in terms of the scope and the preconceived categories afforded by the formal protocols and languages.

The free flow of capital is the weapon of choice for conducting deadly economic wars. It is not a freedom that any society should aspire to.

It is not surprising that the current economic paradigm, in which corporations have seized the means of digital communication, is increasingly being referred to as techno-feudalism, neo-feudalism, enshitification, or inverted totalitarianism.

Human scale freedoms

The current human predicament is the result of the way in which the current mainstream human social operating system acts as a collective learning disability. The opportunity that presents itself today is to reflect critically on human hubris and human cognitive limitations, and on all the irreversible damage we have already inflicted on the Earth’s ecosystems and the biosphere. WEIRD societies are designed to distract from freedoms and agency at human scale. Debates about individualism vs super-human scale collectivism completely miss the point.

Humans evolved in human scale groups that enjoyed local autonomy – autonomous collaboration at human scale, without being embedded in larger abstract powered-up systems of command and control.

Furthermore, as outlined above, healthy human scale cultural organisms maintain many collaborative relationships with other cultural organisms. This provides individuals who find themselves trapped in a family system that is incompatible with their sensitivity profile and value system with opportunities to migrate to a different cultural organism, as needed even a cultural organism from a different cultural species, which is more aligned with their values and sensitivities.

Onwards!

Life defies the dehumanising cut-off points of the bell curve

The global mono-cult pretends that all aspects of life can be categorised and understood in terms of normality – by the hump of the bell curve. But the living planet does not conform to anthropocentric normality, it is chaotic, it is beautifully and awesomely diverse.

Normality is a product of the industrial era

The discipline of statistics and the term normality are cultural products of the industrial era, steeped in the Newtonian understanding of the physical laws of motion discovered in the 17th century, which paved the way for formalising the engineering of mechanical machines and the development of industrial factories.

From Wikipedia:

Some authors attribute the credit for the discovery of the normal distribution to de Moivre, who in 1738 published in the second edition of his The Doctrine of Chances the study of the coefficients in the binomial expansion of (a + b)n.

… Stigler points out that de Moivre himself did not interpret his results as anything more than the approximate rule for the binomial coefficients, and in particular de Moivre lacked the concept of the probability density function. Carl Friedrich Gauss discovered the normal distribution in 1809 as a way to rationalize the method of least squares.

In 1823 Gauss published his monograph “Theoria combinationis observationum erroribus minimis obnoxiae” where among other things he introduces several important statistical concepts, such as the method of least squares, the method of maximum likelihood, and the normal distribution. Gauss used M, M′, M′′, … to denote the measurements of some unknown quantity V, and sought the most probable estimator of that quantity: the one that maximizes the probability φ(M − V) · φ(M′ − V) · φ(M′′ − V) · … of obtaining the observed experimental results. In his notation φΔ is the probability density function of the measurement errors of magnitude Δ. Not knowing what the function φ is, Gauss requires that his method should reduce to the well-known answer: the arithmetic mean of the measured values. Starting from these principles, Gauss demonstrates that the only law that rationalizes the choice of arithmetic mean as an estimator of the location parameter, is the normal law of errors ...

However, by the end of the 19th century some authors had started using the name normal distribution, where the word “normal” was used as an adjective – the term now being seen as a reflection of the fact that this distribution was seen as typical, common – and thus normal. Peirce (one of those authors) once defined “normal” thus: “…the ‘normal’ is not the average (or any other kind of mean) of what actually occurs, but of what would, in the long run, occur under certain circumstances.” Around the turn of the 20th century Pearson popularized the term normal as a designation for this distribution.

Many years ago I called the Laplace–Gaussian curve the normal curve, which name, while it avoids an international question of priority, has the disadvantage of leading people to believe that all other distributions of frequency are in one sense or another ‘abnormal’.
— Pearson (1920)

The living planet does not conform to normality, it is chaotic

I grew up in the 1970s and 80s, and studied mathematics when chaos theory was developed and became practical to be explored with the help of digital computers and numerical algorithms. By that time it was clear that:

There are limits to which sequences of events and the behaviour of complex adaptive systems can be modelled numerically. No increase in computing power will ever allow the behaviour of complex adaptive systems to become predictable, and therefore fully comprehensible to human minds.

From Wikipedia:

Despite initial insights in the first half of the twentieth century, chaos theory became formalized as such only after mid-century, when it first became evident to some scientists that linear theory, the prevailing system theory at that time, simply could not explain the observed behavior of certain experiments like that of the logistic map. What had been attributed to measure imprecision and simple “noise” was considered by chaos theorists as a full component of the studied systems …

The main catalyst for the development of chaos theory was the electronic computer. Much of the mathematics of chaos theory involves the repeated iteration of simple mathematical formulas, which would be impractical to do by hand. Electronic computers made these repeated calculations practical, while figures and images made it possible to visualize these systems. As a graduate student in Chihiro Hayashi’s laboratory at Kyoto University, Yoshisuke Ueda was experimenting with analog computers and noticed, on November 27, 1961, what he called “randomly transitional phenomena”. Yet his advisor did not agree with his conclusions at the time, and did not allow him to report his findings until 1970.

Edward Lorenz was an early pioneer of the theory. His interest in chaos came about accidentally through his work on weather prediction in 1961. Lorenz and his collaborator Ellen Fetter and Margaret Hamilton were using a simple digital computer, a Royal McBee LGP-30, to run weather simulations. They wanted to see a sequence of data again, and to save time they started the simulation in the middle of its course. They did this by entering a printout of the data that corresponded to conditions in the middle of the original simulation. To their surprise, the weather the machine began to predict was completely different from the previous calculation. They tracked this down to the computer printout. The computer worked with 6-digit precision, but the printout rounded variables off to a 3-digit number, so a value like 0.506127 printed as 0.506. This difference is tiny, and the consensus at the time would have been that it should have no practical effect. However, Lorenz discovered that small changes in initial conditions produced large changes in long-term outcome. Lorenz’s discovery, which gave its name to Lorenz attractors, showed that even detailed atmospheric modeling cannot, in general, make precise long-term weather predictions.

In 1963, Benoit Mandelbrot, studying information theory, discovered that noise in many phenomena (including stock prices and telephone circuits) was patterned like a Cantor set, a set of points with infinite roughness and detail Mandelbrot described both the “Noah effect” (in which sudden discontinuous changes can occur) and the “Joseph effect” (in which persistence of a value can occur for a while, yet suddenly change afterwards). In 1967, he published “How long is the coast of Britain? Statistical self-similarity and fractional dimension”, showing that a coastline’s length varies with the scale of the measuring instrument, resembles itself at all scales, and is infinite in length for an infinitesimally small measuring device. Arguing that a ball of twine appears as a point when viewed from far away (0-dimensional), a ball when viewed from fairly near (3-dimensional), or a curved strand (1-dimensional), he argued that the dimensions of an object are relative to the observer and may be fractional. An object whose irregularity is constant over different scales (“self-similarity”) is a fractal (examples include the Menger sponge, the Sierpiński gasket, and the Koch curve or snowflake, which is infinitely long yet encloses a finite space and has a fractal dimension of circa 1.2619). In 1982, Mandelbrot published The Fractal Geometry of Nature, which became a classic of chaos theory ...

As Perry points out, modeling of chaotic time series in ecology is helped by constraint. There is always potential difficulty in distinguishing real chaos from chaos that is only in the model. Hence both constraint in the model and or duplicate time series data for comparison will be helpful in constraining the model to something close to the reality, for example Perry & Wall 1984 …

Economic and financial systems are fundamentally different from those in the classical natural sciences since the former are inherently stochastic in nature, as they result from the interactions of people, and thus pure deterministic models are unlikely to provide accurate representations of the data. The empirical literature that tests for chaos in economics and finance presents very mixed results, in part due to confusion between specific tests for chaos and more general tests for non-linear relationships …

Chaos theory can be applied outside of the natural sciences, but historically nearly all such studies have suffered from lack of reproducibility; poor external validity; and/or inattention to cross-validation, resulting in poor predictive accuracy (if out-of-sample prediction has even been attempted). Glass and Mandell and Selz have found that no EEG study has as yet indicated the presence of strange attractors or other signs of chaotic behavior …

Modern organizations are increasingly seen as open complex adaptive systems with fundamental natural nonlinear structures, subject to internal and external forces that may contribute chaos. For instance, team building and group development is increasingly being researched as an inherently unpredictable system, as the uncertainty of different individuals meeting for the first time makes the trajectory of the team unknowable …

The unavoidability of chaos is a threat to anyone who is vested in systems of control and in maintaining social power gradients.

Imposing normality on an unpredicatable world

Looking back with 20/20 hindsight, the social developments in the WEIRD world since the invention of digital computers can be summarised as a desperate brute force attempt of the physically (via fossil fuels) and socially (via the globalisation of finance and capital flows) powered-up institutions of the industrial paradigm to deny the existence of chaos, and to impose the normality needed to achieve predictable profits for corporations and predictable capital gains for investors.

The pre-internet wave of computing in the 1980s and 1990s that automated industrialised production processes of material goods and related logistics mostly focused on processes and material flows on the factory floor. This era gave birth to the concept of continuous improvement and six sigma techniques in industrialised production. It provided a broad field in which normal distributions proved useful in reducing manufacturing errors and quality deficits in the material goods produced. Many of the factors that define quality of industrially produced goods relate directly to the Newtonian physical laws of motion and stochastic processes with few variables, and can thus be neatly “controlled” by applying the normalising cut-off points of the bell curve.

But even at that time honest and astute practitioners of scientific management like W. Edwards Deming and Harrison Owen clearly saw the limitations of the industrial paradigm, especially in terms of the living humans that are an integral part of the design and operation of any modern corporation, and especially within the context of a competitive, chaos-blind, control-obsessed economic ideology.

“Pay for merit, pay for what you get, reward performance. Sounds great, can’t be done. Unfortunately it can not be done, on short range. After 10 years perhaps, 20 years, yes. The effect is devastating. People must have something to show, something to count. In other words, the merit system nourishes short-term performance. It annihilates long-term planning. It annihilates teamwork. People can not work together. To get promotion you’ve got to get ahead. By working with a team, you help other people. You may help yourself equally, but you don’t get ahead by being equal, you get ahead by being ahead. Produce something more, have more to show, more to count. Teamwork means work together, hear everybody’s ideas, fill in for other people’s weaknesses, acknowledge their strengths. Work together. This is impossible under the merit rating / review of performance system. People are afraid. They are in fear. They work in fear. They can not contribute to the company as they would wish to contribute. This holds at all levels. But there is something worse than all of that. When the annual ratings are given out, people are bitter. They can not understand why they are not rated high. And there is a good reason not to understand. Because I could show you with a bit of time that it is purely a lottery.”
– W Edwards Deming (1984)

The internet era wave of computing from the mid 1990s onwards can be understood as the doubling down on keeping the myth of industrialised normality alive with brute force, by imposing it on the anthropocentric social realm. In The End of the Billionaire Mindset Douglas Rushkoff refers to hyper-normalisation in the digital realm as ‘auto-tuning’.

The internet provided the technological infrastructure, the development of smart phones made internet access quasi ubiquitous, the rise of social media enabled corporations to seize the means of communication and collaboration, and this in turn enabled digital algorithms to ingest, normalise, and disseminate gigatons of user produced content in ways that best serve the interests of digitised capital.

If you are culturally well adjusted to modern society, your sense of “normality” is shaped by the things you don’t notice and by the things that you take for granted. “Normality” is like the air you breathe as a mammal, or the water that you’d be swimming in if you were a fish. The hump of the bell curve is the digital God of Normality.

What started as “big data”, morphed into the “new oil” in a seemingly limitless digital realm – pushing away any niggling concerns about limits to growth in the physical realm, and then morphed again and was sold to power addicted investors as “artificial intelligence”.

“Artificial intelligence” is best understood as the computation of a mono-cultural hyper-normalised view of the world that is explicitly designed to be addictive to individuals and profitable for corporations.

Karl Marx’ critique of capitalism was correct, ownership of the means of production defined the locus of social and economic power in the early industrial era, but he could not foresee the extent to which digitisation of large parts of all forms of human communication would allow some corporations to effectively seize control of the means of communication and collaboration.

The global mono-cult, which continuously perpetuates itself in the anthropocentric digital realm by projecting a hyper-real image of the world in which corporations are “in control”, is increasingly in stark contrast to the ecological state of the world in the physical realm, in which everything is “out of control”.

A world yet to come

We can describe our overall direction of travel as: From artificial scarcity towards ecologies of abundant care. Manish Jain talks about the shift from deadlihoods to alivelihoods. Adebayo Akomolafe talks about a world yet to come.

I don’t think that the vibe here is “Let’s get to a solution and get with it”. I think we’re staying with the trouble of these questions. And somehow, navigating, meandering, Autistically sometimes, this vortex, or these vortices of these questions, will enable new kinds of sensibilities to sprout, and then we will suddenly realise we are different.
– Adebayo Akomolafe

Reflecting deeply on the relational nature of life allows us to become reacquainted with the lower and upper limits of human scale. Along the way we also begin to re-appreciate the limits of human comprehensibility and sense making.

Being at ease in an unpredictable world

The main difference between modern emergent human scale cultural species and prehistoric human scale cultural species lies in the language systems and communication technologies that are being used to coordinate activities and to record and transmit knowledge within cultural organisms, between cultural organisms, and between cultural species.

The proliferation of trauma in industrialised societies is a reflection of the scarcity of genuinely safe de-powered relationships. The path back towards safe social environments is a bottom up approach, focused on small teams, households, and whānau – the exact opposite of the corporate controlled, competitive, and super human scale social media environments that have infiltrated human lives over the last 20 years. Small is beautiful.

Humans all over the world need to address multiple existential threats, without any delay, within a time frame of a few years and decades, which is only possible by framing life in terms of collaborative niche construction, a self-organising process that relies on timeless practices for co-creating good company:

  1. The conception of life as a collaborative game that involves trust, mutual aid and learning
  2. Shared biographical information, which helps us understand prior experiences and trauma
  3. Joint experiences, which allows us to appreciate the extent to which various situations are experienced in similar or different ways, and which gives us insights into the cognitive lens of the other person
  4. Regular sharing of new experiences and observations, which allows us to learn more about the cognitive lens and the values of the other person
  5. Asking for advice, which allows us to acknowledge our own limitations, extend trust, and appreciate the knowledge and unique capability of the other person
  6. Being asked for advice, which signals trust and which gives us feedback on how the other person perceives our level of knowledge and domain specific competency
  7. The development of relationships and trust takes time

Over time this self-organising process results in unique relationships of deep trust between people, and in unique cultural microcosms between pairs of people that provides us with a baseline of safety. In human scale groups, over time, these practices result in new adaptive paradigmatic frameworks that are tailored around the unique needs of the members of a specific ecology of care.

Within good company (smaller than 50 people), everyone is acutely aware of the competencies of all the others, and transparency and mutual trust enables wisdom and meta knowledge (who has which knowledge and who entrusts whom with questions or needs in relation to specific domains of knowledge) to flow freely. This allows the group to rapidly respond intelligently, creatively, and with courage to all kinds of external events.

Humans are not the first hyper-social species on this planet. Insects such as ants offer great examples of successful collaborative niche collaboration at immense scale over millions of years.

Evolutionary biologist David Sloan Wilson observes that small groups rather than individuals are the primary organisms of human societies. This should provide all of us with food for thought and it has massive implications for the cosmolocal future of our species.

It turns out that lived experience in nurturing and maintaining mutual trust at human scale is the key ingredient for being at ease in a seemingly unpredictable world. Being able to rely on each other is at the core of the evolutionary heritage of our species. Mutual trust is a biophilic ecological phenomenon of emergent local predictability that is not limited to humans.

Somehow the Wonder of Life Prevails – Mark Kozelek & Jimmy LaValle